tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232664651858738176.post1601830410319487822..comments2024-03-04T00:44:07.072-06:00Comments on Under Thy Roof: Dealing with RejectionKirbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10273803585943545418noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-232664651858738176.post-31805904252153589952016-04-07T14:00:48.087-05:002016-04-07T14:00:48.087-05:00These are awesome tips, and so applicable to a lar...These are awesome tips, and so applicable to a large variety of situations! I especially like how you mention "do tell people." For some reason, I usually think that whatever type of rejection I've experienced is a deep, dark, hideous secret that only my husband can know about, but you're right-it's not, and speaking about it is a good way to normalize it and get over it, because it's really not the end of the world. <br /><br />For me, I process things by writing (hence, why I love blogging), so instead of just trying to relive the rejection or get it completely out of my head, it can be really helpful for me to write it all out on paper. This helps me determine exactly what I'm upset about, how exactly it made me feel, etc. Then, if I really need some time away from thinking about the rejection, I can fold up that paper and set it aside and move on with my life, but I can pull out the paper later to address what I need to improve on. AnneMariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13462442204217572325noreply@blogger.com